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If you want to get over a disagreement as a couple fast, there are some things you’re going to have to realize. The first is that the person that you’re currently with is not your ex. You can’t hold them liable for the feelings that come up when you argue. Unless the person you’re dating has given you a reason to think otherwise, they deserve the benefit of the doubt and the right to an opinion. In situations like this, communication is key. If you want to talk about how you feel, use “I” statements instead of “You”. It comes across more effectively if you state how you feel and assume responsibility for that emotion without blaming them for making you feel it.

You don’t need a huge budget for Date Night. In fact, this is where creativity counts. There are so many things you can do for fun that are low-cost or free. All you need is a little imagination and some drive, and you can pull off any special occasion you want with little expense. A few ideas for daring dates include having your palms read by a palm reader, heading to the thrift store to buy wacky gifts for one another, having a romantic picnic in the park with food bought from an ethnic grocer, star gazing together in the bed of a pick-up truck or in a tent, and even creating a unique playlist of music that reminds you of the other person.

Your gut usually tells you if someone is the “One”. It also lets you know that things aren’t exactly right when the other party misbehaves or gives you red flags in the relationshipA tell-tale sign that he or she is not the “One” is that you feel like you must pretend to be someone you’re not around them. This is never a good thing as you’re not the person you’re pretending to be, and eventually, they’ll find this out. If you must put on a guise to get another person to love or accept you, they are not the right person to have a relationship with. 

Successful couples possess specific qualities. If you want to strengthen the current relationship that you’re building, try working on the following things. Doing so can make all the difference as to whether your relationship lasts. Some qualities to work on include being able to disagree without wrecking your relationship, admitting wrongdoings and moving on quickly, not comparing your current partner to your former partner, telling the truth always, and moving on from the past so you create a brighter future. These things get easier with practice. Always show compassion and kindness to your partner and ask that they do the same. Respecting one another is the key to making things work long-term.

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