If your date isn't who they said
they were or is coming on too strong after you've asked them not to, it's fair
to ask for assistance with the situation. You can call in reinforcements by
having a few trusted friends meet you wherever you're at, or you can alert the
staff at the establishment that things are going very wrong and ask for their
help with the matter. Either way, you should never feel forced to spend time
with someone who makes you feel uncomfortable. For your safety, go with your
gut and get the help that you need. Do not go anywhere alone with the person,
either, even if they initially picked you up to take you on the date. Call Uber
or Lyft and get a ride home. If you're concerned that you're going to hurt the
other person's feelings, don't worry. Everyone is responsible for the energy
they put out and the way they behave around others. Do not apologize. Just make sure that you're safe.