Before you speak openly about not liking or wanting children, it’s important to know if the person that you’re dating has any. It could totally change the relationship between you quickly. Many formerly married people have children with their ex-spouse. For that reason, it’s important to take that factor into consideration before voicing your opinion about kids. The child or children may live with the other parent but the person that you’re dating remains an important part of their life. Your date’s loyalty lies with his or her kids. Make this one of the first things you talk about, so you’ll know if you should share your opinion on the matter or not.