When you're divorced, it's easy to know what you don't want in a partner or dating experience. So, why not focus on what it is you really want instead? Are you looking for companionship so you can go to the movies or out to dinner without feeling alone? Or, are you looking for someone who ignites the fire inside you, gets you thinking about commitment, and one day has the opportunity to meet your children? Each person's experience is different which leads us to emphasize the importance of knowing what you want from an online dating experience. That way, your expectations are in alignment with your heart's desire. You won't waste your time wining and dining the wrong person when deep down inside, you're looking for someone serious to spend time with that feels the same way that you do romantically.